Rules and regulations of Liquid Lovemaking
- Arrive on time as we cannot admit latecomers
- Self care - be clear and listen to your own boundaries at all times and respect others boundaries
- Discretion - What happens at the party stays at the party. If you choose to post about Liquid Lovemaking on social media, please only describe your own experience, not someone else’s or who was there or where it was held.
- Phones - Strictly no phones or cameras in the oil. If you need to check your phone, please do so in the bag area.
- Liquid Lovemaking takes place in a large private venue. Please be respectful of the setting with regard to noise and cleanliness. Our venues are kept totally secret and will be revealed to you on the morning of the party via Eventbrite. For discretion, we ask that you also keep the exact venue secret.
- Safe and consensual sex always -give people space, ask if you would like to join them
- No drugs or intoxication, no pressure, you are welcome to bring your own alcohol, but please be aware that we do not tolerate alcohol or drug intoxication.
Public Health Measures and Ticket T&C
We are always keeping a close eye on developments regarding any public/sexual healthcare issues which may impact our guests. We take reasonable precautions by following the latest updates and government healthcare and safety guidelines.
Friendly reminder:
You have 24 hours from the moment you purchase your tickets to change your mind about attending and get a full refund.
After the first 24 hours, it’s important to us that you are fully clear that all tickets are non transferable, non refundable, and non exchangeable regardless of circumstances. If we are required to reschedule our event for any reason (eg lockdowns) your tickets will be transferred to the next available date. If you have to cancel for any reason then please note your ticket is non transferrable, non refundable, and non exchangeable.
Please do not purchase a ticket if there is a chance you may change your mind or not be available.
These have always been our terms and conditions and the team has had to make this blanket decision to make no exceptions. As you know our industry hasn't been able to operate for almost two years and there are too many individual variables that may change in between purchasing a ticket and attending the actual event. For example: sickness, bereavements, changes in relationships and health, travel, family commitments, changes in being comfortable attending a party, as well as changes in health and safety guidelines.
We fully understand and appreciate that there will always be extreme individual circumstances but we are unable to make any individual exceptions and still function as a business during this time.
We are always doing our upmost to be as responsible as possible and provide the safest experience for our guests. We encourage you to be as informed as possible about what you're comfortable with in terms of attending an intimate event such as ours before you purchase a ticket.
We really appreciate your continued support, and your understanding of these terms and conditions, and we look forward to seeing you all in the oil!
Many thanks for your cooperation and understanding!
Friendly reminder:
You have 24 hours from the moment you purchase your tickets to change your mind about attending and get a full refund.
After the first 24 hours, it’s important to us that you are fully clear that all tickets are non transferable, non refundable, and non exchangeable regardless of circumstances. If we are required to reschedule our event for any reason (eg lockdowns) your tickets will be transferred to the next available date. If you have to cancel for any reason then please note your ticket is non transferrable, non refundable, and non exchangeable.
Please do not purchase a ticket if there is a chance you may change your mind or not be available.
These have always been our terms and conditions and the team has had to make this blanket decision to make no exceptions. As you know our industry hasn't been able to operate for almost two years and there are too many individual variables that may change in between purchasing a ticket and attending the actual event. For example: sickness, bereavements, changes in relationships and health, travel, family commitments, changes in being comfortable attending a party, as well as changes in health and safety guidelines.
We fully understand and appreciate that there will always be extreme individual circumstances but we are unable to make any individual exceptions and still function as a business during this time.
We are always doing our upmost to be as responsible as possible and provide the safest experience for our guests. We encourage you to be as informed as possible about what you're comfortable with in terms of attending an intimate event such as ours before you purchase a ticket.
We really appreciate your continued support, and your understanding of these terms and conditions, and we look forward to seeing you all in the oil!
Many thanks for your cooperation and understanding!
What should I wear?
Take time over your appearance so you feel great. Wear whatever you feel sexy in. Let your preparation time before the party be like foreplay. You’ll need to arrive in smart (easy to remove!) clothes
Once you arrive we welcome you, and then invite you to remove your shoes and strip down to your sensual attire and get comfortable as we prepare for the oil. This could be lingerie, smart boxers, sensual robe, etc
Once you arrive we welcome you, and then invite you to remove your shoes and strip down to your sensual attire and get comfortable as we prepare for the oil. This could be lingerie, smart boxers, sensual robe, etc
What do I bring?
- A fun friendly respectful and sensual vibe!
- A towel you are not precious about - it will get oily
- Consider bringing comfortable clothes you’re not too precious about to wear for your way back home - you will still have oil residue on you
- You're welcome to bring your own beverages and alcohol - light snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be provided, note you can't buy any alcohol at the venue
- A towel you are not precious about - it will get oily
- Consider bringing comfortable clothes you’re not too precious about to wear for your way back home - you will still have oil residue on you
- You're welcome to bring your own beverages and alcohol - light snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be provided, note you can't buy any alcohol at the venue
I’ve been to play parties before - how is this different?
Simply put, there’s nothing quite like Liquid Lovemaking Parties. This is the most uniquely intimate play party you can attend - an extraordinary journey of sensuality, where you are gently guided into meeting other people in the most beautiful way, in a safe and lush setting.
So, apart from the obvious element - the oil - what makes us different?
So, apart from the obvious element - the oil - what makes us different?
- We are small and intimate by design. We have a maximum number of 30 people, which helps create an intimate and cosy vibe
- We are not about hardcore kink, spiritual sex rituals, DJs, what brand of underwear you’ve got, performance, or competition
- We create a very special guided sensual journey to facilitate you meeting new people in a beautiful way.
- Your wellbeing matters to us, and to support you to have a great time, we hold the space carefully, but encourage full-spirited freedom within the playground we create
So is this a house party? A club party? Are there lots of play rooms?
It’s none of those things.
We host our party in a beautiful intimate venue near Old Street underground station. What you can expect is a large area with special floor surface, suitable for our guests to gently glide on. The entire event takes place in the one space, with no additional private rooms.
This is definitely not a loud music kind of party. We see it more as a journey of sensual exploration, with beautiful gentle vibes.
We host our party in a beautiful intimate venue near Old Street underground station. What you can expect is a large area with special floor surface, suitable for our guests to gently glide on. The entire event takes place in the one space, with no additional private rooms.
This is definitely not a loud music kind of party. We see it more as a journey of sensual exploration, with beautiful gentle vibes.
I’ve never been to anything like this before - am I expected to do anything?
In short - no. There are no expectations on you to do anything.
We only ask that you join us with an open mind and are respectful of everyone around you. You can choose to interact and engage as much or as little as you feel comfortable. Everything is an invitation and we are on hand to support or guide you if needed. That said, our parties are most suited to people who have an interest in exploring with others. Spectators in such an intimate space can be unnerving for some people, so our intention is to create as comfortable a space as possible for everyone present.
I’ve bought tickets but I am no longer able to bring someone. What can I do?
Get in touch and let us know as soon as possible. Please do be aware though, that we are not a dating service, so we accept no liability for your loss if you’ve bought tickets but cannot attend for this reason.
What kind of people attend?
Generally, guests ages range from 20s to late 40s with most in their 30s that being said we don't have an age limit at all, if you think the vibe of Liquid Lovemaking will suit you and you agree to our rules then you'll be most welcome! We welcome singles, couples, poly partners, playmates, and friends of all ranges.
We don't belong to any particular 'scene' so people from all backgrounds attend - kink, fetish, sex positive, tantric, swinging, BDSM, conscious/spiritual, queer and no particular scene at all! We've had people from all walks of life, backgrounds, identities abilities attend - from wheelchair users, people experimenting with cross dressing, gender identities and sexual orientations, different relationship arrangements, cultural and religious backgrounds - full range but mostly just your 'regular' person wanting to explore intimacy, sensuality, connection, and play. And oil. We definitely get people who are into oil ;)
We don't belong to any particular 'scene' so people from all backgrounds attend - kink, fetish, sex positive, tantric, swinging, BDSM, conscious/spiritual, queer and no particular scene at all! We've had people from all walks of life, backgrounds, identities abilities attend - from wheelchair users, people experimenting with cross dressing, gender identities and sexual orientations, different relationship arrangements, cultural and religious backgrounds - full range but mostly just your 'regular' person wanting to explore intimacy, sensuality, connection, and play. And oil. We definitely get people who are into oil ;)
Can you explain what ‘guided’ entails?
We welcome everyone on arrival and talk through the rules, consent, safer sex practices before we get everyone nice and chilled and relaxed with just a bit of closing eyes and breathing - nothing too deep and meditative but it can just help all the nerves and anticipation settle. Using music we then gently guide you into the oil, supporting you to really help set up the sensual vibe and flow for the rest of the evening. We make it super easy for you to connect with your own body and listen to what you might want to explore. The guidance aims to take all the 'head' talk and awkward small talk out for you and gives you a way to connect with your fellow party guests throughout the night.
What if I don’t like anyone?
Yep - totally can happen. You can't force chemistry or attraction. Just because you attend sex parties doesn't mean that sex necessarily happens. Keeping an open mind without specific expectations is a must. Obviously, we won't trap you in the oil! If you feel it is not for you for any reason you are more than welcome to leave.
Can I see the guestlist?
Definitely not. We don't share names, pictures, contact details or anything about our guests. Ever. Absolute discretion and confidentiality at all times.
What kind of oil do you use?
We use olive oil, which we have found works best. It feels lovely on the skin, and we add a few drops of lavender oil to give it a fresh aroma.
Are there showers available?
Please note there are no shower facilities available for us at the venue so take this into consideration for your plans once you depart - you will be well moisturised to say the least!
So how do we clean up at the end?
We will provide you with absorbent paper towels which are very effective in cleaning the oil off skin. We then invite you to towel down and slip into comfortable clothes and shower once you are back home. We also have on hand disposable hair wraps for anyone with long hair.
What if I don’t want to have sex?
Then don’t have sex! Theres absolutely no pressure or expectation for you to do so! Theres plenty of sensual juicy vibes to soak up and enjoy without having sex.
What if I have my period?
No problem at all! The main thing is do whatever you feel comfortable with . We advise a moon cup/tampon for the duration of the guided oil segment of the party. For hygiene purposes a sanitary towel won't be appropriate. Some women use sponges during sex.
Like with any situation you just need to communicate with yourself and those you want to interact with about each others boundaries and comfort levels. Some women prefer not to come to the party if they have their period (please note we can't refund or exchange for this reason).
Like with any situation you just need to communicate with yourself and those you want to interact with about each others boundaries and comfort levels. Some women prefer not to come to the party if they have their period (please note we can't refund or exchange for this reason).
What if I’m too nervous or shy?
That’s completely normal and understandable, and kinda cool that as adults we can still get overexcited! We do our upmost to make sure you're as comfortable as possible, and you definitely won't be the only one who is a little nervous. We suggest taking things super slow before and as you arrive at the party so you arrive unrushed and relaxed.
I have particular issues I want to explore within my own sexuality and relationship with my partner(s) - is this the right place to do that?
Guests have been known to go through quite a personal journey after attending our events and opening up their worlds to all sorts of new things, however please note this isn't a workshop or healing space where people are facilitated to go deep into whatever process they may want to. Please be clear on your own boundaries and establish your party agreements with your partner(s) BEFORE you attend a party. A party isn't the time or place to work through issues safely - nor is it much fun for other guests and your hosts to have to deal with emotional fall outs. If you're not sure if you or your relationship is ready for a party and would like to explore and talk about things or your own issues then we are happy to offer a 15min free Skype/Zoom call for those interested in working through anything that comes up before, during or after the parties. To arrange a free call, please email us your details and we’ll contact you.
I don’t always feel great about my body - are these parties only for pretty/good looking people?
Absolutely not! We have all types of bodies and people that attend our events. Attractiveness is completely subjective, and we love the beautiful vast array of flavours, shapes, sizes, and combos possible.
Our main criteria is that you’re healthy, hygienic and have a sexy/attractive attitude towards following our rules and practicing consent, respect, and generally being nice to people!
Our main criteria is that you’re healthy, hygienic and have a sexy/attractive attitude towards following our rules and practicing consent, respect, and generally being nice to people!
I have piercings / jewellery - is this okay?
For the safety of all the other party guests, we ask that you remove all sharp/pointy piercings and jewellery.
I’m pregnant - is it safe for me to attend?
Hell yes! We have had a number of pregnant guests attending, and it’s been beautiful. We actively encourage and celebrate any pregnant person wanting to attend. You will be safe, comfortable and probably even have extra special offers of various massages if you like! Some women feel they need to hide away during this time or fear they'll be fetishised (or may indeed want to be!) - wherever you're at please just let the hosts know and we'll be happy to make you feel comfortable.
How do you manage/promote enthusiastic and continued consent at the parties?
We make sure all guests take ownership of their own self care at all times, listen to what is right for them, and are able to have the language (non verbal and verbal) to be able to communicate their boundaries. This can be interesting to navigate for some people in a party environment and life in general! Our hosts are always on hand to talk to and to give guidance to help maintain the safest environment possible. If there is any issue during the party it is imperative that you let the hosts know as soon as possible otherwise they can't do anything about the situation.
What are the agreed upon and communicated standards for condom usage and other sexual health precautions?
Safe sex at all times. Condom usage is mandatory, dental dams and gloves for other types of interactions are strongly and actively encouraged and provided for.
How actively are you hosts involved? Do you play also?
Your host Yal always holds the space for the parties and never actively gets involved during the parties so as to create a safe and attentive atmosphere.
If you'd like to book a private session with Yal to explore touch, boundaries, consent, and intimacy in a guided and safe setting, please email us at [email protected]
If you'd like to book a private session with Yal to explore touch, boundaries, consent, and intimacy in a guided and safe setting, please email us at [email protected]
How about wheelchair accessibility?
Our regular venue is fully wheelchair accessible (one step - we have a ramp). However, we occasionally have to work in venues which are more challenging. Do let us know your needs in advance of booking so we can make sure you are fully accommodated.
How much alcohol can I bring? Can I buy alcohol at the party?
Liquid Lovemaking Parties don't have a major drinking/intoxication party vibe. You’re welcome to bring your own alcohol and note there are no facilities to purchase alcohol at the party nor do we provide alcohol. Please note that if your consumption becomes an issue for guests or the hosts you will be asked to leave immediately.
What if I want someone’s number at the party?
Please ask them politely and respect their answer. Please don't ask us a week after the party! We're not a dating site :-)
I identify as a woman and I’m interested in female-only sessions
Sure! Check out www.ladyliquidlove.com
I love this whole naked oil thing, but I’m after something more gentle and sensual rather than a sex party
In that case you may wish to join us for The Liquid Love Experience, which we occasionally host on Sunday afternoons. Liquid Love is an utterly gorgeous experience, where we encourage exploring the sensual over the sexual. The boundaries at Liquid Love are different to the parties, and we recommend it as an amazing exploration of touch and intimacy.
www.liquid.love
www.liquid.love
What if I leave an item of clothing behind or forget something at the party?
If it’s a dry item and we find it we will hold it for 48 hours before giving it to charity (if its charity shop friendly!). If it’s a fabric item soaked in oil we will put it straight in the bin as we have to clear the venue immediately after the party, and we cannot take oily items with us, nor can we leave them at the venue. We hold no responsibility for left behind items.
How much do tickets cost?
Generally £140 per pair e.g. one ticket equals 2 x guests. Very limited single tickets are available for each event .triad tickets available on request.
We do not think that lack of funds should be a barrier to attending. We offer a very limited number of tickets at reduced cost. Please email us to access these.
We do not think that lack of funds should be a barrier to attending. We offer a very limited number of tickets at reduced cost. Please email us to access these.
I’m single, can I come alone?
We understand not everyone has someone to attend with them, however our parties are very small and intimate, and in order to keep a safe and friendly vibe we only sell tickets in pairs (no single tickets). This gives everyone a buddy to be able to check in with and look out for during the party.
I’m coming with my partner(s) - why do you want us to each fill in a registration form?
We want to make sure that every person that attends has read and understood all the FAQs and our terms and conditions so they are fully informed about how we run the parties and the rules/boundaries. We made this rule after an occasion where one partner vouched for both parties - however when they turned up the other partner obviously wasn't completely sure what they were attending. This isn't safe (or fun!) for us as hosts or the other party guests.